What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 03:56
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
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Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
What would you do if you found out that someone had broken into your home while you were sleeping?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
Do Republicans want to ban books and decide what your kids can and can’t read?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
How do I identify fake friends in life?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
Can you list every album you have ever listened to?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
Can relationship issues cause depression?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
When do you feel most peaceful ever?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
Can anyone show a photo with a penis in their anus?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
Have you ever been spanked in front of a group of people?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
*** Questions About Me ***
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
How old are you? Male or Female?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
If yes, what?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
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46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
What is your favorite position? Why?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
If you win, what will you make them do?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
Nothing too Serious
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
Would you read them together?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
29- How superstitious are you?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
The Ice Breaker Questions
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
Family Relation Age Play
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
Any that are a turn off?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
39~ What are your love languages?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
52~ What are your hobbies?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
Any that are a turn off?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
*** Random Questions ***
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
Please share Did you stop?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?